CHESHIRE — Jamie Arute was first motivated to start his own martial arts training center in 2006, after his daughter happened upon several trophies from his competitive days as a fighter.
His daughter, just 3 at the time, was inspired by his expansive collection of medals — Arute’s training dates back to 1981 — and wanted to try martial arts herself. Arute took her to about 15 different studios in the area, all different styles and backgrounds, but couldn’t find the right fit. Either the classes were too big, or the instructors didn’t provide the right kind of training.
“I thought to myself, ‘This town needs a school that will give the kids personalized attention, help them grow and achieve goals, teach them proper techniques, but still allow them to have a fun and exciting environment,’ ” Arute said.
Arute now owns and operates Alpha Krav Maga, at 1070 S. Main St. The business, which opened under a different name, has gone through many changes over the past five years. Arute said they have all been positive, especially since last year, when he changed the martial arts organization he was affiliated with.
Now, “people seek me out,” Arute said. He receives private business from the entire state and Massachusetts, he said, along with several law enforcement organizations.
“I’m just a different breed,” he said.
In March 2008, Arute opened his own self-defense school offering several types of martial arts, but emphasizing Krav Maga (the Hebrew term means “contact combat”), which was developed for the Israeli Defense Forces in 1948. At the time, he used curriculum from Krav Maga Worldwide, an organization that recruited former IDF soldier and Krav Maga expert Sam Sade to teach. Last year, Sade left the organization to begin Alpha Krav Maga, which concentrates entirely on the teachings of the Israeli martial art.
Arute saw an opportunity in the change, and decided to partner with Sade. The change made Arute a member of the organization’s board of directors and designated his Cheshire branch the Northeast Regional Training Center for Alpha Krav Maga. Arute said this means that any instructor who wants to be certified in Krav Maga or wants to open his own branch through Alpha Krav Maga on the East Coast must visit his school and undergo training.
Arute said Krav Maga is “a more aggressive martial art.”
“If a child is put in front of a situation, they’re going to try to verbalize their way out of it or deescalate it, but if something does happen, they are going to defend themselves,” he said.
A majority of children won’t defend themselves because they’re scared of getting in trouble with their parents, Arute said. Arute invites parents to be a part of the class, allowing them to understand the teachings, so children understand that “mom and dad have your back if you need to defend yourself.”
“You might have consequences to deal with at school, but if you are truly defending yourself, you’re going to get a big hug from mom and dad, and a high five from your instructor that you successfully stood up for yourself,” Arute said.
It’s not all about children protecting themselves, though. Arute holds age-appropriate classes, with only children 13 and above who pass a maturity test allowed to enter the adult program, which is much more physical and includes sparring. He also holds classes for children as young as 6. Adults with under a year of experience enter at level 1 and learn the basic philosophies of Krav Maga before moving to level 2, which includes sparring and more intense training. Law enforcement and military professionals automatically progress to level 2 because of their prior training and experience.
“It’s about defending yourself,” Arute said of his interpretation of Krav Maga. “It’s developed to be straight to the point, using normal reactions of the body. Say someone is getting choked. We take normal reactions and create explosiveness and movements to release hands off your neck.”
The use of Krav Maga isn’t over when one finds a way to escape the choke hold, though, Arute said.
“We don’t train hit once and run, we train hit until they’re not coming back for us anymore,” he said. “Everyone has a different line in the sand. We don’t start fights, we finish them.”
Jennifer Bernstein, 43, has been training with Arute for several years, “mainly because of the horrendous crime in 2007,” referring to the Cheshire home invasion.
“It scared me,” she said. “It really resonated because it could happen to anyone.”
The training she has received at Alpha Krav Maga has been life changing, Bernstein said.
“At the time of the home invasion, I felt like I wasn’t fit, and I had a big target on my back,” she said.
Krav Maga has become a big part of her life; she is now an instructor at Arute’s facility. Bernstein said Krav Maga is not all about physical fitness and punching power.
“We can teach people how to hit and strike and duck all day, but there’s a mental perseverance that is key,” she said. Arute also teaches mental approaches to presenting yourself as less vulnerable, therefore less of a target.
Dave Barger, 57, has also felt the benefits of Krav Maga. He’s trained with Arute for more than a year. He spent 24 years as a state police officer and already had years of martial arts background, but found that “Krav Maga is more real life.”
Barger, now the chief of public safety at Quinnipiac University, often hires Arute to teach his officers self-defense and disarming techniques.